Recovery, in their own words

Sober Stories

Real people, real recovery. Honest accounts of what it was like, what happened, and what life looks like now — shared to remind anyone still struggling that they are not alone.

Age 25

Darby Cox

Sober since

One long, self-absorbed pity party where nothing was my fault and everyone was out to get me. The "feeling" I remember the most is complete disconnect from the world around me. I didn't feel...

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Age 44

Brandi Rivera

Sober since

My life was hell prior to my sobriety. I ruined relationships. I ruined myself. All I cared about was finding my next hit and next drink.

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Age 34

Kelly

Sober since

I drank to cope, I drank to be "fun", I drank because it was a day ending in "y"... I blacked out more nights than I didn't and usually had no recollection of what I'd done or who I'd been w...

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Deanna Longhway 33 2 / 28 / 2013
Age 33

Deanna Longhway

Sober since

I was lost. Drinking, drugging, missing work (quit soon after relapse), promiscuous, lying, cheating... The good me was gone.

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Brenda Sturm 49 9 / 13 / 2014
Age 49

Brenda Sturm

Sober since

I battled with different addictions beginning at the age of 23. Drug of choice was Meth. My mother passed away in 2007, and in 2009, I lost my 35 year old brother from an accidental overdose...

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Ron 65 6 / 25 / 2008
Age 65

Ron

Sober since

A never ending cycle of problems, trouble, lies and desperation.

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Barb 52 4 / 27 / 2008
Age 52

Barb

Sober since

I felt either frantic or nothing. The stress and anxiety I had were self fulfilling. I drank to bury the stress and created more every time. I just wanted it to not hurt so bad all the time....

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Kelly 46 5 / 24 / 2009
Age 46

Kelly

Sober since

It was lonely, with temporary happiness and a world full of shame, insecure about myself and what others thought of me, and grief. Uncertainty surrounding me all the time.

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Stephanie Lynn 37 12 / 8 / 2015
Age 37

Stephanie Lynn

Sober since

I have lived in active addiction since I was 19 years old. I spent 18 years struggling to break free. It started out with a simple ear infection. I went to the emergency room in the middle o...

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Katie Lang 42 11 / 19 / 1999
Age 42

Katie Lang

Sober since

Alcohol gave me a very euphoric feeling but I'd always crash into a deep dark depression and self-loathing afterwards. It got to the point where I'd black out every time I drank and that was...

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