
Debi
- Age
- 40
- Sober Since
- March 17, 2014
- Sober For
- 12 Years & 199 Days
01 What it was like
I was a bartender for 15 yrs doing the late night thing...going out after work every night giving the money that I had just made back to another bartender from the opposite side of the bar. I was drinking with friends, driving around from bar to bar and not going anywhere in life. With two college degrees under my belt, I just couldn’t seem to find the motivation to go back to a regular 9-to-5 job or lifestyle.
I was drinking with friends, driving around from bar to bar and not going anywhere in life.
02 What happened
The frequency of my drinking went from weekends to starting on Wednesday nights through Sunday night. One night on the way home I looked down to check a text and ran off the side of the road missing a huge tree by just a few inches and damaging my brand new car. Thinking about the possible outcomes of my actions was a huge wake up call for me. The next morning, St. Patrick’s Day 2014, I swore off drinking until my car was fixed. It’s now been 4 1/2 years and I’ve never looked back.
03 What it is like now
I am now a certified personal trainer, aqua therapist and wellness coach. I have done a 180° turnabout in my life and love every minute of it. I know I am one of the lucky ones, that’s what St. Patty’s Day reminds me of every year.
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